Harsh my arze, someone needs to pull you into line Tim, you are just fine the way you are, and if you can make a go of it and also make a few bucks, good on ya.
Just keep doing what you do, everyone is fine with that from what Iv'e been reading.
You only help people because you want to and it's in your nature, and that's a good.
You'll go to heaven when ya die, and that's a good too, a lot cooler LOL
Now just get on with being a seagull and helping your fellow man, woman.
Cheers, the ferret.