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It the relay is 'buzzing' it sounds like the wiring is not correct. Make sure the connections to the relay actually match the relay that you are using. Check that you are getting full battery voltage across the COIL of the relay when the reverse lights are supposed to be operational. If so, it should not buzz. Can you apply voltage to the relay output and see if that light the reverse lights to prove that part of the circuit.