Depression

[threedogs]

No news about my son ,I pray everynight that he's safe somewhere.
My wife and I are slowly imploding or it feels that way .With his birthday
coming up its going to be very sad day indeed. its been 5 months now.
Who does this shit to other ppl ?? I'll cry myself to sleep again tonight.
like I do most nights,,,Its just not fair,,Grrrrrrrr

[Avo]

No news about my son ,I pray everynight that he's safe somewhere.
My wife and I are slowly imploding or it feels that way .With his birthday
coming up its going to be very sad day indeed. its been 5 months now.
Who does this shit to other ppl ?? I'll cry myself to sleep again tonight.
like I do most nights,,,Its just not fair,,Grrrrrrrr

there's not enough hugs in the world to help mate.....
thought's coming your way but....

[GQtdauto]

Feel bad for you threedogs , unfortunately these things happen and usually to nice people , sometimes people decide to go off grid , would be nice to get a text or even a snail mail saying I'm ok just need some time out , it's the not knowing that sends the mind racing into panic mode .
Apart from worrying as us parents do , I'm not sure what more you can do apart from releasing a photo on some medium like Facebook saying have you seen this man etc .

[GQtdauto]

Hoping the police have done their usual checks of banks , Centrelink , tax office and hospitals etc .
Remember a story of someone stopping to give a swaggie a drink of water beside the road on a hot day , very remote rural location and can't remember if they recognised him or thought something was odd and contacted police or whatever but it turned out years earlier he just went walkabout for some reason and was listed as missing , the police got in touch with the relatives and he was reunited .

[pearcey]

Prayers and thoughts to you and your wife T D, have no idea what your going through, can only imagine.
Never give up and please ask for help. Not only to find your son but support for you and you wife.
Praying for a good out come.

[threedogs]

Well the detectives came today to get some DNA from me, they already took some from Lily.
they say this will be finalized with charges laid by the end of April, sadly there is no happy ending.
Now after I pick up Lily from work Ill have to tell her our son is dead, who does that????
I'm at the end now,, like Lily Im drained, hard to put a smile on my face thats for sure

[mudnut]

Mate, that is just the worst. My sincere condolences. Remember if you want to talk, you know I'm here for you.

[threedogs]

Mate, that is just the worst. My sincere condolences. Remember if you want to talk, you know I'm here for you.

thanks Craig I dont have a big circle of friends and the ones Ive met on the forum
I regard as friend thats for sure,

[Plasnart]

Well the detectives came today to get some DNA from me, they already took some from Lily.
they say this will be finalized with charges laid by the end of April, sadly there is no happy ending.
Now after I pick up Lily from work Ill have to tell her our son is dead, who does that????
I'm at the end now,, like Lily Im drained, hard to put a smile on my face thats for sure

I really don't know what to say TD. Whatever I do say won't change anything but just know we're here if/when you need a shoulder.

My sincerest sympathies to you all.

[jack]

Deepest sympathy to you and your family John, can't imagine what you're going through.