Except when you behave in ways which has an impact upon others. When that happens what you do becomes other people's business as friends & mates look out for each other & if someone is doing the wrong thing by them then word passes around firstly to help to prevent more folk being hurt, & secondly to express the anger which results from either being 'played' or witnessing friends having been played.
There are plenty of folk here who have shared personal examples off-forum of your lies, exaggeration & deception since this all came up. Verbal deception is easily deniable, so no point in repeating it, suffice it to say that there has been a fair degree of folks realising stuff they had previously let slide, now 'adds up' with the aid of the added context provided by ANZMI.
ANZMI is now almost irrelevant, your 'profile' there was just the flag which needed waving to allow folk to look at things anew. Things here have moved beyond that, folk have realised they have their own 'evidence'. They don't need to justify themselves to you, they know what you told them.
You may believe you have done no wrong, but the reality is that your behaviour leaves an emotional toll for some in your wake, as well as a 'bad taste' for many more & in the absence of any acknowledgement & apology from you one thing is for sure, your behavior will be watched like a hawk as long as you remain here, folk don't forget those who treat them poorly.
I have nothing against you personally, it's your behaviour I have not been prepared to tolerate & that is based upon two things - my dislike of dishonesty & seeing innocent folk treated as fools.





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