hi Macca, im sorry to see anyone leave the forum, that goes for EVERYONE. I do understand that people for their own reasons do not get along or take offense at what someone says but for me like a lot of others i take everything with a grain of salt, i maybe do not get involved as some but i try to help where i can. I understand also that we all have our demons we are dealing with in different ways and i would hope that you and Paul and anyone else that has had enough can take a bit of time out, work out your issues and return here to the forum as i enjoy reading what everyone has to say but i wont get involved in personal problems between members as at the end of the day we are all adults and can work out what is best for each of us. As i said i hope everyone can sort things out and return when that has been achieved.