Thanks guys I did some more reading last night (this can be good and bad) and know it is not the end of the world...

My problem stems from my bladder and needing to wee very often and the other outcome as discussed with my doctor is a have a problem with my bladder that could involve surgery.

Now I am not sure if it is because I am sick at the moment and have been taking cold tablets but yesterday I went for a wee about 20+ times and many of you know because you like to give me shit about it but I seem to we a lot but the last few days my mouth has been so dry and I cannot hold fluid at all... once upon a time I would just keep this to myself and I suppose I have for the last few years but it has gotten worse and I need to talk about it... I told my wife of my fears and at first I got a lecture about not getting blood tests done sometime ago but I told her that this does not help !!!! now she feels guilty...lol !!!

I guess I know many of you have diabetes but no one talks about it so I have no understanding of it but to put my head in the sand.