Am I going - 100% yes or no?

The answer will have to be no. My eldest dumped on me about 2 months ago he is getting married in July this year and wants me to fork out, and I can't say no. I reckon I won't get much change out of $5k from the trip over east and help pay towards a wedding as well. To say I'm disappointed is an understatement, but I just can't financially do both. Hope you'll understand.

While I'm here, I'll have to say no to the meet in Qld, too.

Hope you all understand.

Take care out there.

Rossco