Whats, up, ClunK?
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Whats, up, ClunK?
Amazing and inspiring story of human survival spirit & tragic at the same time 'cos your buddies did't make it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kimbo63
I hope you've recovered from the trauma mate. 4WD'ing is good therapy, as I've discovered.
Yeah, what happened? I hope he's ok.Quote:
Originally Posted by mudnut
Mate I know how you feel, am in the same boat at the moment.Quote:
Originally Posted by Clunk
Give us a call if you need to, mobiles always on so anytime is fine
"Never under estimate the power of the tap, let it flow through you"
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Originally Posted by mudnut
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Originally Posted by dom14
I'm ok, just very pissed off with a certain situation that had nothing to do with me personally, which now I'm stuck bang in the middle of. No idea which way to go or what to do about it...... it'll get sorted one way or another but whichever way it goes, it's going to be bloody ugly and things will never be the same again. Time to just ride the wave and see where this bastard takes us I guess.Quote:
Originally Posted by oncedisturbed
Apologies if this link hasn't been proofed properly old mate. My intentions remain the same!
http://www.sunrisesunset.com/Australia/
Nothing can keep a good man down!
Well, I must say it has been a long time since I have felt oppressed and all round defeated. But over this last two weeks I am feeling somewhat destroyed.
Stupid thing is I have no reason to feel this way. Apart from the fact I am on the bones of my arse at the moment, everything else is good.
Great wife.
Good dog.
Good kids.
Good job.
The Godfather
Well. You've done the right thing listing some of the great things in your life. I don't know your situation but just the act of posting on here is a big step because you know you are not alone.
Well just to off load:
Patrol is still at Brunswicks. So using a very expensive to run car for repping in. Bound to have an argument with Brunswicks over warranty.
Wife and I had a blew, all sorted now. Of course this happens when you get down and close up.
Moved the step mother into a home for dementia patients, dad is falling apart, sisters are all an emotional mess, but still helpful. Family on the east coast want to take legal action against us for putting her in a home. Unfortunately for them it will be me they come up against.
Moving dad closer to the dementia home so he can be closer to step mother.
I am a few days behind at uni.
Sales are slightly down at work, so this hits my finances as I am on commission.
Can someone please turn the page for me. I am done with this one. Rock on 2017.
That aside, I am actually starting to feel better.
4 legal suites now served on us. I am expecting another 2 personally. Hearing is the 27-29th Jan 2017 at the State Administrations Tribunal. Funnily enough though. This kinda snapped me out of my depression a bit.
Thank you to those who contacted me. It has been well appreciated.
hope it all goes well mate.
x 2 mate hope it does go wellQuote:
Originally Posted by Stropp
My eldest is now listed as missing going to be a rotten xmas , well it wont be xmas here this year at least
What? No! Ahh, man. Is there anything we can do, TD?
Thanks Craig , nothing to do ATM the D's from Missing Persons on onto itQuote:
Originally Posted by mudnut
dont really want to think about it too much, my missus [Lily] is un consolable
gee i hope he is found ok mate :(Quote:
Originally Posted by threedogs
Hope he contacts you before Xmas mate.Quote:
Originally Posted by threedogs
UPDATE: Court cases are done and dusted. Judge was fair but brutal. All cases have been dismissed and the accusers were berated by the court.
The best part was watching my dad face a the stress was lifted from him. The vision alone was worth the pain. I think dad slept a full night for the first time in a long time.
As for me and my siblings, we walked out of court and straight into the pub.
The Godfather.
Having been thru the depression cycle from pain from prescribed drugs and a work injury that ended my working life , not to mention the assumed guilty of fraud for putting in a claim from Workcover I've seen and been thru a lot .
One thing that has kept me from the dark is the fact that no matter how bad my physical and mental injury there is always someone worse off than what I was , to wake up in the morning and be able to dress and toilet myself (just) was definitely a positive .
My worst problem being a man is we bottle it up and don't talk we have to be tough , truth is getting it out in the open to either a phsyc or a friend or any one who will listen and care is a step in the right direction .
thats the best thing to do is you have someone to talk to about your feelings regardless of worries or happiness. Try to manage your self without any doubts of what you are doing.
No news about my son ,I pray everynight that he's safe somewhere.
My wife and I are slowly imploding or it feels that way .With his birthday
coming up its going to be very sad day indeed. its been 5 months now.
Who does this shit to other ppl ?? I'll cry myself to sleep again tonight.
like I do most nights,,,Its just not fair,,Grrrrrrrr
there's not enough hugs in the world to help mate.....Quote:
Originally Posted by threedogs
thought's coming your way but....
Feel bad for you threedogs , unfortunately these things happen and usually to nice people , sometimes people decide to go off grid , would be nice to get a text or even a snail mail saying I'm ok just need some time out , it's the not knowing that sends the mind racing into panic mode .
Apart from worrying as us parents do , I'm not sure what more you can do apart from releasing a photo on some medium like Facebook saying have you seen this man etc .
Hoping the police have done their usual checks of banks , Centrelink , tax office and hospitals etc .
Remember a story of someone stopping to give a swaggie a drink of water beside the road on a hot day , very remote rural location and can't remember if they recognised him or thought something was odd and contacted police or whatever but it turned out years earlier he just went walkabout for some reason and was listed as missing , the police got in touch with the relatives and he was reunited .
Prayers and thoughts to you and your wife T D, have no idea what your going through, can only imagine.
Never give up and please ask for help. Not only to find your son but support for you and you wife.
Praying for a good out come.
Well the detectives came today to get some DNA from me, they already took some from Lily.
they say this will be finalized with charges laid by the end of April, sadly there is no happy ending.
Now after I pick up Lily from work Ill have to tell her our son is dead, who does that????
I'm at the end now,, like Lily Im drained, hard to put a smile on my face thats for sure
Mate, that is just the worst. My sincere condolences. Remember if you want to talk, you know I'm here for you.
thanks Craig I dont have a big circle of friends and the ones Ive met on the forumQuote:
Originally Posted by mudnut
I regard as friend thats for sure,
I really don't know what to say TD. Whatever I do say won't change anything but just know we're here if/when you need a shoulder.Quote:
Originally Posted by threedogs
My sincerest sympathies to you all. :(
Deepest sympathy to you and your family John, can't imagine what you're going through.
My sincere condolences to you and your wife threedogs , I'm stunned and shocked to hear the bad news and can't imagine what your going through , I'm sure the whole of our community here is here for you if you need anything .
Robert
I had to read it twice, just couldn't believe it...
We're all here for ya.
Condolences to you and your family.
I echo the thoughts of the others who have already posted John. There is nothing that can be added. Carole and I join the others in that our thoughts are with you and yours. You have a lot of friends here if we can help. Tony and Carole
Deepest and sincere condolences to you and your family mate
I am really sorry to hear that John, loosing one of your kids would have to be about the worst thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by threedogs
Condolences to you and your family.
I'm really sorry to hear the news John, my sincere condolences to you and your family.
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I'm so sorry to read that John. I truly have no words.
Shit John! I am sorry to read this. Condolences to you and your family mate.
Sincerest, condolences to you, your wife and all your close friends TD.
No words can take away the pain, but love can ease it.
Stay strong.Thoughts and prayers to all.
My sincerest condolences to you and your wife John, my kids are my whole world mate and can't imagine how I'd handle one of them gone, to foul play would hurt even more.
I must admit I'm not on top of the details of what has gone on in your World mate, and sorry for that, best wishes to you mate.