Wow mate. Deepest sympathy for you and the Family in this time.
It does help to talk.
Ill be the first to admit my issues are pretty minor, many more are worse Off than me. But opening up to the wife has opened up both our eyes..
The other day she said yes to 35" tyres!!! Not that I'm getting them but it nice to know my wife now appreciates some of my wants..
Anyway.. Were all here to chat..