Depression

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Originally Posted by pearcey

Tony
I am not that religious but all my thoughts and prays are for you and your family.
I know exactly what you are going through at the moment as I lost my wife of 43 years on 11-1-2016, to a long and hard fight with pancreatic cancer.
So please if you want to talk or need any support I`m close by, day or night.

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My Condolences to you Pearcy, that is a great loss you have suffered. My best wishes to you. So sorry to hear your news bud.

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Originally Posted by pearcey

Tony
I am not that religious but all my thoughts and prays are for you and your family.
I know exactly what you are going through at the moment as I lost my wife of 43 years on 11-1-2016, to a long and hard fight with pancreatic cancer.
So please if you want to talk or need any support I`m close by, day or night.

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To second MR mate that's a huge loss.
Condolences to you and the family mate..
But the same applies mate we all here to chat if needed..

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Originally Posted by pearcey

Tony
I am not that religious but all my thoughts and prays are for you and your family.
I know exactly what you are going through at the moment as I lost my wife of 43 years on 11-1-2016, to a long and hard fight with pancreatic cancer.
So please if you want to talk or need any support I`m close by, day or night.

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I am really sorry to hear that mate, that must be a devistating loss for you. I have only met you briefly but could tell straight away that you are a top bloke and know she must have been a beautiful pearson to have been with you. I really appriciate your thoughts while you must be grieving yourself.
I am not religious myself but at this time I figure I may as well cover all bases. Just worried I might get hit by lightning if I go to church.

Thank you Tony and everybody for your thoughts and kind words. She was beautiful, and a wonderful wife and mother but most of all she was my best mate.
I`m not God fearing or a shrink, but I would like to say a little that may help you get through this devastating time for you and you family. Don`t lay blame on anybody, try to stay calm and discuss everything openly,especially with family, involve the children as much as possible, even the youngest (they are smarter than we think)Ask for help from old friends (some may have experienced similar situations) You like me enjoy the odd drink, don`t get pissed, but do have the odd nightcap, it helped me, and make sure you eat correctly (I didn`t, not good)
My thoughts are with you and your family and friends, I`m only a PM away.
Stay strong mate

So sorry to hear pearcy. It was a pleasure to meet you both.

>>>tappin from tassie

For what its worth they say ppl in comas can hear every word you say.
Prayers still going your way......

I am very sorry for your loss, pearcy. The support offered between members of this forum is a thing to treasure.

sorry to hear Pearcey, my condolences to you and the family.

Sorry to hear of your loss Pearcey, condolences to you and your family

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Originally Posted by TPC

Today is the worst of my life so far but it may be eclipsed soon.
I am absolutely devastated, my son who has been battling cancer has had serious complications from lung surgery.
He is being put on a ventilator today in ICU but things are looking real bad.
We (me, my wife and his two girls who are 4 and 6) are heading up to Sydney tomorrow morning to be with him and his wife.
I can not imagine not having him around, he is my son and my best friend.

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I hope you're coping ok with the most painful experience of your life mate.
I have no idea how bad the pain you're going through, but with empathy I can try to imagine.
No parent should have to go through this, but this is what life throws at us.
Spend as much as time with him and talk to him as much as you can.
Even though he is in a coma, he may be able to hear you and gain strength from it.
He is going through the biggest battle of his life.
I wish your son to appear victorious in the end of this battle.
Take care mate.