Pain is very hard to deal with and sometimes you are very short with ppl around you,
All I can suggest is hot /cold compress's on the painful area. As that's about the only thing I've found to give a little relief.
Asprin is a great anti inflammatory, take as directed.
Maybe High Lander could shed a bit more light on the subject.
Alcohol is not a medicine, it may make matters worse.
Chin up Clunk eh Bloke