Originally Posted by
DX grunt
Personal story here........
It's harder to receive than give.
True story for many of us. Think about it.
Many many years ago, my wife, our 4 young kids and me, went through a really hard time. One day, our church pastor arrived on our doorstep with a food parcel.
I should have been glad and thankful, but I was devastated. I felt so low that I could have crawled under a pregnant ant. Words fail me on how I initially felt.
I never told anybody we were going through a hard time - but my pastor knew!
From that experience I learnt that it is a good thing to receive, and that I didn't have to keep giving and giving and giving.
It was a very humbling experience indeed and I'll never forget it. Something happened inside me that broke my pride - in a healthy way.
I don't have any issues now with receiving or accepting.
Take care out there.
Rossco