Depression

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Originally Posted by pearcey

Tony
I am not that religious but all my thoughts and prays are for you and your family.
I know exactly what you are going through at the moment as I lost my wife of 43 years on 11-1-2016, to a long and hard fight with pancreatic cancer.
So please if you want to talk or need any support I`m close by, day or night.

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My Condolences to you Pearcy, that is a great loss you have suffered. My best wishes to you. So sorry to hear your news bud.

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Originally Posted by pearcey

Tony
I am not that religious but all my thoughts and prays are for you and your family.
I know exactly what you are going through at the moment as I lost my wife of 43 years on 11-1-2016, to a long and hard fight with pancreatic cancer.
So please if you want to talk or need any support I`m close by, day or night.

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To second MR mate that's a huge loss.
Condolences to you and the family mate..
But the same applies mate we all here to chat if needed..

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Originally Posted by pearcey

Tony
I am not that religious but all my thoughts and prays are for you and your family.
I know exactly what you are going through at the moment as I lost my wife of 43 years on 11-1-2016, to a long and hard fight with pancreatic cancer.
So please if you want to talk or need any support I`m close by, day or night.

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I am really sorry to hear that mate, that must be a devistating loss for you. I have only met you briefly but could tell straight away that you are a top bloke and know she must have been a beautiful pearson to have been with you. I really appriciate your thoughts while you must be grieving yourself.
I am not religious myself but at this time I figure I may as well cover all bases. Just worried I might get hit by lightning if I go to church.

Thank you Tony and everybody for your thoughts and kind words. She was beautiful, and a wonderful wife and mother but most of all she was my best mate.
I`m not God fearing or a shrink, but I would like to say a little that may help you get through this devastating time for you and you family. Don`t lay blame on anybody, try to stay calm and discuss everything openly,especially with family, involve the children as much as possible, even the youngest (they are smarter than we think)Ask for help from old friends (some may have experienced similar situations) You like me enjoy the odd drink, don`t get pissed, but do have the odd nightcap, it helped me, and make sure you eat correctly (I didn`t, not good)
My thoughts are with you and your family and friends, I`m only a PM away.
Stay strong mate

So sorry to hear pearcy. It was a pleasure to meet you both.

>>>tappin from tassie

For what its worth they say ppl in comas can hear every word you say.
Prayers still going your way......

I am very sorry for your loss, pearcy. The support offered between members of this forum is a thing to treasure.

sorry to hear Pearcey, my condolences to you and the family.

Sorry to hear of your loss Pearcey, condolences to you and your family

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Originally Posted by TPC

Today is the worst of my life so far but it may be eclipsed soon.
I am absolutely devastated, my son who has been battling cancer has had serious complications from lung surgery.
He is being put on a ventilator today in ICU but things are looking real bad.
We (me, my wife and his two girls who are 4 and 6) are heading up to Sydney tomorrow morning to be with him and his wife.
I can not imagine not having him around, he is my son and my best friend.

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I hope you're coping ok with the most painful experience of your life mate.
I have no idea how bad the pain you're going through, but with empathy I can try to imagine.
No parent should have to go through this, but this is what life throws at us.
Spend as much as time with him and talk to him as much as you can.
Even though he is in a coma, he may be able to hear you and gain strength from it.
He is going through the biggest battle of his life.
I wish your son to appear victorious in the end of this battle.
Take care mate.

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Originally Posted by pearcey

Tony
I am not that religious but all my thoughts and prays are for you and your family.
I know exactly what you are going through at the moment as I lost my wife of 43 years on 11-1-2016, to a long and hard fight with pancreatic cancer.
So please if you want to talk or need any support I`m close by, day or night.

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I hope you're recovering from your loss mate. It will take some time.
We all have to leave this life behind one day.
We can only hope that it will be less painful and not too soon.
Take care.

Like to thank all the ppl that sms's and pm'ed, this has knocked me for 6
Friigen surgeon if he'd done it right in the first place none of this would
have happen, Im basically in agony and at the will of QBE who will be
making all the choices.Once the pain settles down a bit I will be ringing QBE
to vent big time. It wasn't even this painful when I was first injured, Ill tell
you straight its' really getting to me this time around GRRRRrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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Originally Posted by threedogs

Like to thank all the ppl that sms's and pm'ed, this has knoked me for 6
Friigen surgeon if he'd done it right in the first place none of this would
have happen, Im basically in agony and at the will of QBE who will be
making all the choices.Once the pain settles down a bit I will be ringing QBE
to vent big time. It wasn't even this painful when I was first injured, Ill tell
you straight its' really getting to me this time around GRRRRrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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Hopefully they can finally fix it ey..

Thanks to you all here on np just feeling really down atm up here in Broome closing a big part of our business not easy to lay any one off any one that have worked for you for 8 years but mines closing down will do that anyhow I'm grestfull for being Part of this great forum thanks to you all
Kimbo
Absolutely gutted right now

this A.S. can just feckin do one now please

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Originally Posted by Clunk

this A.S. can just feckin do one now please

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Are you OK Adrian?

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Originally Posted by MudRunnerTD

Are you OK Adrian?

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Yep it'll pass in a day or so, just wish my immune system would shut itself off and stop fighting me.

I'm sorry mate but what's AS?

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Originally Posted by Clunk

Yep it'll pass in a day or so, just wish my immune system would shut itself off and stop fighting me.

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Thoughts with you Clunk hope it passes quickly for you

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Originally Posted by biggqwesty

I'm sorry mate but what's AS?

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http://www.medicinenet.com/script/ma...articlekey=274

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Originally Posted by threedogs

Thoughts with you Clunk hope it passes quickly for you

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Thanks TD, I'm hoping today will be a better day

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Originally Posted by Clunk

Thanks TD, I'm hoping today will be a better day

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Will it make you feel any better if I tell you I didn't have a wank yesterday and that I've been pissing blood outta my c!ck since Tuesday or earlier?

Hope you have a better day Adrian

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Originally Posted by Clunk

Thanks TD, I'm hoping today will be a better day

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Im thinking you know the best way to manage this condition, feel you for Clunkster
Chin up

Farout! That sounds bloody painful, Clunkster.

And passing blood is pretty bad too. Man!

Wishing you both all the best in dealing with it.

Sorry to hear that clunky hope you are feeling better sure sounds painful mate

Tomorrow is Always a better day, look forward to it arriving

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Originally Posted by Clunk

http://www.medicinenet.com/script/ma...articlekey=274

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Shit that sounds terrible.. Yea hopefully it passes quickly..

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Originally Posted by NissanGQ4.2

Will it make you feel any better if I tell you I didn't have a wank yesterday and that I've been pissing blood outta my c!ck since Tuesday or earlier?

Hope you have a better day Adrian

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And you still sticking your c**k in naughty places???

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Originally Posted by NissanGQ4.2

Will it make you feel any better if I tell you I didn't have a wank yesterday and that I've been pissing blood outta my c!ck since Tuesday or earlier?

Hope you have a better day Adrian

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Did you find out what it was?

hope you both have good outcomes with the problems guys.

Feeling better Clunky,,,,LOL

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Originally Posted by threedogs

Feeling better Clunky,,,,LOL

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Oh yeah everything is just feckin dandy

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Originally Posted by Clunk

Oh yeah everything is just feckin dandy

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How things going clunky

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Originally Posted by biggqwesty

How things going clunky

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Not too bad for now ta, shoulders and neck still painfull but at least the inflamation everywhere else has subsided..... so today is what I would class as a good day

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Originally Posted by Clunk

Not too bad for now ta, shoulders and neck still painfull but at least the inflamation everywhere else has subsided..... so today is what I would class as a good day

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Good to hear mate..
I'm bloody aching after the weekend I've just had.. but nothing to what you boys are dealing with..

I dont know what caused your depression......but i 100% understand. had my first bad time in 06 major breakdown lost the plot lost my job and ended up heavily medicated. got back on top of it all in 2010 i had my next eposode kicked my wife out went on a major alcohol binge was a mess for 6 months the whole time my wife was in the back ground watching out for me got my self level again...... every now and then i get down i open up to her go seek help nothing changes over night but it will slowly...... even now i have been a bit shirty but we know the signs she knows what to watch out for and makes sure im safe...... if it was not for the woman i love i would more than likly be on the street or just another statistic

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Originally Posted by Bloodyaussie

Cannot begin to explain how low I feel right now.... we did not get the house I had my heart set on and I feel that my wife being an accountant sometimes stuffs with what is really needed to purchase some houses.

We have gone up an incredible amount of money from our original starting price and can still not get a house.

The family have now gone out and I have beer which I will drink all by myself which is pretty healthy thing to do under the circumstances... I hate living in the city and i hate paying this much frickin money..... fuck it.

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Take it easy on the beers mate. Have a few but dont go all out. Sounds like a time to keep level headed right now and not blow up making things 10 times worse. Got a punching bag to take it out on?

I hear you brother! Understand the frustration, but as always it needs to be chin up,chest out.

Perseverance, courage. The two most dominant qualities of any successful person!

Press on bloke and don't let the black mongrel ambush you!

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Originally Posted by Bloodyaussie

Cannot begin to explain how low I feel right now.... we did not get the house I had my heart set on and I feel that my wife being an accountant sometimes stuffs with what is really needed to purchase some houses.

We have gone up an incredible amount of money from our original starting price and can still not get a house.

The family have now gone out and I have beer which I will drink all by myself which is pretty healthy thing to do under the circumstances... I hate living in the city and i hate paying this much frickin money..... fuck it.

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And all caused by money grabbing bastard realestate agents inflating house prices to a rediculous level that the average Joe have no hope ever of being able to reach...... I feel your pain mate, but you'll get there eventually, what will be will be

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Originally Posted by Bloodyaussie

Cannot begin to explain how low I feel right now.... we did not get the house I had my heart set on and I feel that my wife being an accountant sometimes stuffs with what is really needed to purchase some houses.

We have gone up an incredible amount of money from our original starting price and can still not get a house.

The family have now gone out and I have beer which I will drink all by myself which is pretty healthy thing to do under the circumstances... I hate living in the city and i hate paying this much frickin money..... fuck it.

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Would me calling you princess make you feel better? Good, I'm glad!

Toughen up young man and start working and stop whinging.

Geez, I'm a good mate ey[emoji106]