Devastating news John,
Our deepest condolences from Natalie and I.
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Devastating news John,
Our deepest condolences from Natalie and I.
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So sorry to hear. Our thoughts are with you
Condolences John, Lilly and Daniel - so devastating for you all.
Jack and family.
For those who wish to attend the Funeral
The funeral service is @ Blessed Oliver Plunkets church on Gaffney St
Pascoe Vale from there to Faukner cemetary. Date is the 11th of May.
Id like to thank everyone on behalf of Lily and Daniel for all your kind words , we are feeling the love but its still very hard.
My thought will be with you all .
TD,so sorry mate.................
Omg that is tragic news. Condolences to you and family John.
Awful news, condolences to you and your family.
Condolences John and family
Roofy & Jane-o
Yesterday was the sadest day if my life I had to do what no parent should have to do
and thats to bury your children,
There was a great turn out with lots of laughter and tears. Now David is gone and taken a piece of our hearts with him.
So Proud of Daniel he organised everything I cant thank him enough, Mates I havent seen for years turned up.
It was a special day ,,its was Davids day and he took it with both hands, like they say " there is only one David Whimpey"
A huge thanks the the members that took the time to PM me Ive been a bit of a mess of late. Now to try and start healing.
Once my patrol is repaired I be taking a few up the Murray for a celerbration fishing trip on behalf of David.
Again thanks to all.
Really feel for you John, definitely a terrible thing to go through.
As you said, time to start healing and a trip up the river would do you good.
Nice to hear from you again TD. Hoping you can now start the healing process.
@katwoman you know how we spoke about old cars a while back. well a freind has gemini with a V6 commodore motor in it he is giving us
as he knew how much David loved it and worked on it. David was a qualified auto sparky. the car is in show room condition
Nice to see you back TD , a Gemini with a V6 should burn rubber no problems mate .
Sounds sweet TD. The memories and connections like that are all we have now. Cherish them. I know you will.Quote:
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Crap John, something we don't wish on anybody!Quote:
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Good to see you back on the forum mate!
...........on the road
I need to bow out for a while this is killing me inside and still abit of a messQuote:
Originally Posted by Nisshead
Ill take the time to finish some things like a locker and a few other neccessary item
Its just so sad I thought Id be stronger be I can't help it...maybe see a few of you out on the track
David and I were very close like I said my first born, now gone because of a lowlife scum , so angry
,so sad just hollow who know how long it will take
Totally understandable John, take your time to grieve mate.Quote:
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Jump in any time mate if you need anything
................on the road
To stop any rumors etc this is what actually happened .
Davis knew too much and was going to come clean and
get his life on track, the last I saw David was on the 22 nd of oct last year about 10am
the low life killed David in the 24th and left him to rot in a paddock near Lake Eppalock
until they found him about the 20th of last month, nothing sinister noting about money.
just David wanting to get his life back of track. Now those two scum are asking for protection
come to my house you losers Ill give you protection, we'll meet again you can count on that
and that will be the day youll need protection ,in court
you shouldn't have to explain yourself mate.....not here anyway..
Exactly......Quote:
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As Avo said mate. You dont have to explain anything here manQuote:
Originally Posted by Avo
I loved my son so dearly, you think sometimes you have enough to go around
I dont think so Im doing it hard whilst two scum are getting 3 hots and a cot.
The system has changed and from what I hear no plea bargaining.. those two can rot in hell as
far all I care, thanks for the support I really need it as of monday I'll seek professional
help.I cant go on like this i'll end up doing something i'll regret. again thanks all
Words cannot express the grief that you and your family are going through. I'm shattered, for you all.Quote:
Originally Posted by threedogs
I've needed professional help for various issues and concerns I've had, and the results were amazing.
I stand and applaud you, 3D, for acknowledging that you need help.
Take care out there.
Unconditional love to you and your family.
Rossco
Good on you for seeking help John. Just remember you still have a good family, they need you and you need them so stay close to them.Quote:
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Feel free to vent and speak your mind on here, I know we can only offer words of support but I hope they can help.
Stay strong mate.
So glad your seeking help John. As said we as your adopted family can only offer so many words, but you know we`re all here 24/7 if needed.
Very special thoughts and prayers to you and your family John.
Not enough words .............. thinking of you mate.
You have your family, may they be closer to you.
If you have a faith, may your god be with you.
You have your friends, may they stand beside you.
You have friends and acquaintances on the net, may they support you.
And you have support that does not come from those above, it is good to see you intend to seek their help.
Time can move so slowly, but we know time is the greatest healer.
John it is easy to offer words, please know you have my best thoughts as well.
I received a text from John today, he's still struggling with all thats happened, the court cases are coming up in the next few months so hopefully this will provide some sort of closure for him. I really wish him the best for the next few months and hopefully we see him back here rambling on. I am at a total loss of what else to say to John...
He also says hi to everyone....
There is not really much that can be said. Thanks for posting and stay in there John.Quote:
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Still doing it very hard some days are better then others, very proud of my other son Daniel he has organised everything,
David is now at rest and the court BS will starts next month, Ill be going for Davids sake. I know itll be hard but I need to do it.
Already know too much that I can never tell Lily, I hope the bastards get what they deserve. again thanks for your thoughts.
Been very hard just typing this Ill be back when I have no idea,,,Threedogs
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All the best mate, I hope the court case goes well and they get what they deserve!
This is a shit thing to read , I've never met you @threedogs but have spoke on the phone & bought your recovery points ( you took yours off your own car & sent them up to me if you remember ? ) , had time away from the forum for a few months as work was insanely busy so I missed this at the time . Don't know what to say mate it's bloody terrible. I've had issues with my ex & not seeing my other kids & had gaps of 6 mths or so without them & it guts me not seeing them so I can only begin to imagine what your going through - especially the circumstances around his death . So sorry , our thoughts are with you.
Been talking to a member here via email and its helped alot. He knows how he is
without him listening to my rants dont know where Id be, As it turns out we have a lot in common,
and when the Patrol is going Ill be up to his place with a box of coopers pale. I miss you all
as you are like a second family to be especially as you have gone through this drama with me,\Anyway stay good
All I seem to be doing is crying all the time but its slowly getting better, see you all soon maybe if not up the Murray
maybe at a Donk party in the future, miss you all big time......Threedogs,,, should be twodogs now as we have Tyler
a blue Am Staff female great dog,,,,
Well done TD , look after yourself mate .
Sorry to hear mate, sad news.
My mate across the roads son hung himself 5 years ago, tore the family to shreds. He has been on medication for 3 or 4 years, the only thing that kept him sane, maybe the doctor could prescribe something to help you out, cheers Wayne.
thee dogs is on so much medication now i dont think another drug would be advisable as they seem to interact with each other and have bad side affects
but thats my thoughts and maybe you are right
Hi all things are still tough, alot of fighting for no reason
the two scum are to appear at the Magistrates court on
the 20-21st of feb for a committal hearing. There are too many triggers that set me off big time
anxiety attacks big time they are slowly getting better. Seems if I dont see anyone Im ok.
Funny eh wedding anniversary today we decided to cancell any future ones. Tyler is a tower of strenght
only 8 months but keep your fingers clear of the pointy end lol
Again big thanks to Rob, Stropp and Col it does mean alot. just need to battle on day by day'
David was my first born the one I taught how to use an electric drill at 2,,mum didn:t like that.
I miss him so much, Im expexting him to walk through the front door anytime now,, but thats not going to happen eh
No Idea why pics are so big ideas anuone??
Geez, sorry to hear of your loss TD, I've been away for a while, also dealing with loss of a family member.
Although life will never be the same again, you will find that you can live, love and laugh again soon. I think you are on the right track too. Dogs, music, the bush and the travel getting to the bush have been where I have found some respite. Get that truck going, plan that trip, load the CD stacker and that cracker of a camp oven, and start the first round of bush therapy! Then rinse and repeat! Good luck mate.
having not been on the forum much of late I dropped TD a pm and was shocked to read his response!
My deepest condolences go out to you and your family, we are all here for you any time you need, and please don't hesitate to call if u need a chat
United we stand, devided we fall. Surround yourself with friends and family you are not alone