Bloody Aussie & Special Dave how things going with you guys ?
I hope all is ok.
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Bloody Aussie & Special Dave how things going with you guys ?
I hope all is ok.
SNAFU
it's nearly been a year..i am happy go lucky at the best of times,but of late it's changed...my mrs is coping the brunt of it..... it ain't her fault..to be honest it's not anyone's... ....the hardest thing is to even start..I know you guys say..hey drop a line,have a chat or a coffee(thanks stropp and others)but in all honesty....i find it hard to even go there...we have the person invovled in councelling...which took over 4 months....-ah the country life..it's good until some one you love needs real help,then you realise how far away from help you really are.. i appreciate this forum and the comradery we all have...but to even open your mouth and say hey Fuck...here's my problem is so hard...what we are going through is so hard for me to even put to words...but i hope in writing this it relieves some pressure...i don't need anything i just needed to get this out.....all day everyday when you work alone it chews you up and spits you out and the mind doesn't stop..
You know where i am mate..... anytime. You know thatQuote:
Originally Posted by Avo
Vent away mate. You guys have had a very tough year..
No one is going to judge you that's for sure..
yes mate, sometimes it gets a hard, pm me if you want or need to, like clunk says just a message or phone call away, i know its difficult but think of the good shit and try not to dwell on the bad. have a merry xmas and happy new year Neil keep the chin up mate and love the little things that make you happy like the bike rides mate :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Avo
Today is the worst of my life so far but it may be eclipsed soon.
I am absolutely devastated, my son who has been battling cancer has had serious complications from lung surgery.
He is being put on a ventilator today in ICU but things are looking real bad.
We (me, my wife and his two girls who are 4 and 6) are heading up to Sydney tomorrow morning to be with him and his wife.
I can not imagine not having him around, he is my son and my best friend.
Tony I'm sorry I don't know what to say to you. My thoughts are with you and your sons families.
Sh#t mate that's devastating. Can't imagine what you must be going through but thoughts are with you and really really hope things turn up. Wishing you all the best.
Fark mate that is devastating news. Was really hoping for a positive outcome..
Have a safe trip over mate. Drive safe..
Thoughts are with you all..
Cant imagine what your going through mate hope it goes well
Tony, our thoughts are with you and your family mate
Tony, our thoughts, prayers and well wishes for you and your entire family.
Daryl
Tony, along with the others my sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with your family and son at this terrible time.
I have no words for you only my thoughts......... take care of yourself Tony and your loved ones around you.
Our thoughts are with you and your family, Tony.
Strength to your right arm Tony, only positive thoughts going your way,
My BIL had a lung removed, it was a long haul but hes ok now.
wish only the same outcome for you,
Surround yourself with loved ones,
Hey Tony, sorry to hear that mate.
All our thoughts are with you and your family.
Wishing for a positive outcome mate.
Hi - I live close by (Aldinga) do you need any help at your place while you are away ?
Thanks everybody for your support, I have calmed down a bit now as have been surrounded by family all afternoon/evening.
I have to remain positive now and believe he can still beat this.
He is now in a induced coma and on a ventilator and is going to be transferred to RPA where he can receive the best care.
I was thinking about driving up but have booked flights instead to be there quicker.
Roosim thanks for the offer of help with my place, it is under control with family members but really appreciate the offer.
That's a really good idea mate, take care Tony...Quote:
Originally Posted by TPC
Cheers
I had the same relationship with my father and now have the same with my own son. I don't know you Tony but can, because of things that have happened over the years, imagine a little of what you and your family are going through. I hope for a positive outcome for you all. Stay strong.Quote:
I can not imagine not having him around, he is my son and my best friend.
If there's any thing we can do.....................Quote:
Originally Posted by TPC
Hey Tony, thoughts are with you mate. Hoping for the best outcome possible
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So sorry to hear whats happened mate. Heres hoping for the best outcome ! Stay strong!
Adding my support for you mate.
How are things Tony...?Quote:
Originally Posted by TPC
Hey Tony, sorry sorry to read this news mate, apologies I missed your post last week. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time, I hope you see some improvement in the coming days.
Thoughts are with you mate.
Regards Darren and family.
I hope your son improves, quickly, Tony. Sending positive thoughts, mate.
Things are not good, thanks for your support guys.
if you need one more wish or prayer mate..just ask....
We're all here for ya bloke.Quote:
Originally Posted by TPC
Thoughts and best wishes with you mate
Sent from my iPhone using My thumbs
Life sucks big ones at these times,
thoughts and prayers going your way mate
thinking of you and the family, positive thoughts for your son.
I really appreciate everybodys well wishes on here, a few words can really help.
We had a neeting with the head of ICU and a few other members of the medical staff today and they have said they will keep him on life support indefinately and try everything to gove him a chance. They said as he is only 32 and has a young family they will give him every oppertunity for survival no matter how slim it might be.
I am glad there is still some hope and will spend as much time with him as I can. I just wish he was in Adelaide instead of Sydney as it is a logistical nitemare with accommodation etc. We currently have my wife and me, my daughters, my sisters, my parents and my sons wife and 2 daughters in Sydney for him but we obviously cannot all stay here indefinately so we will start a roster to make sure his wife always has company.
I do not consider myself a religious person but I am preying now and would be happy if anyone else did too.
Our thoughts are with you mate for a recovery. we are all here for you. Best wishes to your son and compassion for his young family. Heart Breaking here for you mate.
Prayers and thoughts for you son.
Good to hear that they are going to give him every chance possible.
My family and I will start praying for you all, Tony.
Oh Tony, mate, I just read your news. I’m not a praying man but I will light a candle & send wishes for recovery up the Hume.
Tony
I am not that religious but all my thoughts and prays are for you and your family.
I know exactly what you are going through at the moment as I lost my wife of 43 years on 11-1-2016, to a long and hard fight with pancreatic cancer.
So please if you want to talk or need any support I`m close by, day or night.