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Congrats Westy on your anniversary. Have a great one.
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congrats westy...
ban looking for the sake of looking at ebay at the moment mate...you know the story ..lololololol cheers
Today my mum passed away... she waited for me to arrive and passed soon after.
I had a cry but still feel some what detached ?
Waiting for my wife to get home..........
never good mate thoughts with you and your family,
Be happy knowing you were with her at the end .
my mum passed away alone
Jeez mate really sorry to hear. Words fail me. You take care mate we are all here if you need us.
Very sorry to hear that mate, good you were there for her.
sorry to here that BA, feel for you mate.
Thoughts are with you and your family during this tough time BA
Hey mate, really sorry to hear that. I know it was expected but that rarely makes it any easier. As Threedogs said it's a good thing you were able to get there.
All the best and if you need anything, don't get too detached.....you've got my number.
Bugger Johnathon, I'm sorry to hear the news mate as expected as it was its never a good thing mate.
Let us know if me or us here can help in any way!!!
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Condolences on your loss BA
Sorry to hear mate, just remember she will always be with you. When you least expect it something happens and it will remind you of your mum, treasure the memories.
Mate, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Condolences from the all of the mud family.
Condolences to you and your family BA
A sad day mate. Atleast you got some precious last minutes together.
May she rest in piece and here memory live on in your hearts.
ShIt Jonathon, that's crap news. Chin up buddy!
sorry to hear mate condolance to you and your familyQuote:
Originally Posted by bloodyaussie
My condolences to you and your family Jonathon
Ahh bummer mate, glad you were there for her at the end
My condolences to you guys
Man I am so sorry to hear that, my condolences to out to you and you family man. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you man.
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I've got a great big cuddle for you next time I see you Jonathan.
Thanks so much guys... I slept like a baby last night.
I need to go back to mums house and sort through some stuff today and also arrange the funeral so hope this keeps my mind busy.
It really was as though she was waiting for me to arrive there as it was only an hour after I got there that she passed, I said some things I felt needed saying and told her despite everything that has happened I love her.
I wish she had a better life... she made so many bad choices it makes me feel like a life of worry and pain is over now.
Wow I thought all the crying was over but maybe not......................
You have made your peace with your Mum, and that's good.
As I said never a good time, but a part of life unfortunately
Best thoughts from us mate.
Hey Jonathan, my friend, my sincerest condolences and sympathies go to you and your family at this time mate. Cherish her memory and continue to make her proud every day bud, she did well.
Come down for a coffee any time mate.
Cheers Darren
My sincerest condolences Jonathan.
This thread has helped me a lot and the forum overall as without it I would not have a distraction or a place to bend an ear..
Yesterday was hard as I had to go through all her mail and it was so strange to me that she was still buying things online never knowing that when she ordered them by the time they arrived she would be here no more.
My sister and I spent most of the time trying to find the photo's which in the end I did, this was the most important thing to both of us.
As she had no will in place I have to now stuff around with all the legal crap and this is where my uncle has been a great help.
Today I sign the funeral papers and get a date for closure ???
I am embarrassed to have my uncle come down to Melbourne as I was right in the middle of cleaning this place up and doing some more renovations then that heat wave hit and soon after that the Brindabella trip.
I have a lot to do and all I want to do is lye in bed?????
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Originally Posted by Bloodyaussie
Take care bud, dont be embarrassed, your Uncle will understand. Get the things done one at a time and lay her to rest. take care mate and come back to this thread and feel the love whenever you feel down. Cheers bud.
Hi Johnathon,Quote:
Originally Posted by Bloodyaussie
I am so sorry for your loss, my condolences and deepest sympathies from my family to yours.
PS, may she rest in eternal peace.
Kind regards,
Paul & family
Hi Johnathon, just take it one day at a time mate, you WILL get there.
Take care, Rod.
Just got results back from MRI, disc L2 to S1 are bulging and have 3-4mm spurs coming out and 1 disc with a narrow spinal canal. Just need to wait until March to see the Neurosurgeon :(
Other than the pain you are now suffering I think your Neuro surgeon will suggest a laminectomy.
I can see great results and good long term out come. Saying this only from my over 20 years of my crap but talking to others
when ever I was in hospital, you'll be right, its just a minor scrap/trim of the disc and maybe grind off the spurs
Need to talk just PM
EDIT:: just noticed on the news tonight a break through on back pain, something about injecting the disc with something
Never heard of S1
http://www.paradoja7.com/vertebrae-human-spine/
The injection is a type of steroid they put in the facet joints to help relieve pressure and relax muscles, GP is already considering it
At least now that they know what is going on, they can formulate a plan of attack. The steroid injections usually work great and last for about 3-5 months but don't have to many... I had 3 or 4 in my ankle and when it was reconstructed, the bone had died and if I had of waited any longer for the surgery, it would have led to the lop-sided highlander!Quote:
Originally Posted by oncedisturbed
@BA- Very sorry to hear about the loss of your mum. Please accept my deepest condolences mate.
Don't be embarrassed about the house mate. You have more important things to tend to and I'm sure your uncle will understand.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bloodyaussie
But On a side not I think this should be a reminder that a Will is an important thing. Makes the procedure for our loved ones when the time comes.
Just take it one day at a time mate.
We all here for ya.
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Originally Posted by threedogs
your S1 starts just above your L5, L is for lumber and I believe S is for support but I could be wrong its been ages since I had to look into my back stuff as I too have bulging disks though not as bad as OD mine are 2-3mm and range from my L2-L4 and every now and then hit my Cyattic?? nerve which can get effing painful.
I had to look into back stuff to see if I could get my self sorted and return to Roof Carpentry.
Great link as well 3D
Damn straight BA, we are all here for you mate and always open for a chat. Nevermind the house mate its a house with kids in the middle of a reno its going to be crap everywhere
Just send him to my house first johno...lolQuote:
Originally Posted by Westy's Accessories
Your house will be a palace of health and cleanliness after seeing the AB getto...lmao
have had depression myself its not good the feeling af being alone and worthless all I say is reach out to someone I know its hard I did and the helped not by being pushie but just being there and listinging