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    Quote Originally Posted by growler2058 View Post
    Camping mate! You need a night or 3 out in the bush.
    That's something that I would be up for, but not a thing that interests the missus.
    Plus she started a new job from home last year and works weekends (our weekend is, and has been for the last 8 months, Tuesday and Wednesday) and so I look after our little fella as much as I can while she works.
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    Quote Originally Posted by GQtdauto View Post
    I'm into my ninth year now and despite having to wear a foot brace and special shoes most of the time and the weird toilet habits the pain was finally something I could live with , I lost my working life , social life and most if not all of my friends .
    In January I had a minor operation to remove a cyst from my right wrist which didn't go to plan , the surgeon cut a vein and nerves ,now I'm struggling to do anything with the right hand and it's getting worse , the constant burning sensation caused by the cut nerves is bad enough but trying to use the right hand like I used to only to get stabbing pains and like electric shocks has put me back nine years .
    Only thing is I know what I'm in for because I've been there before , just waiting for the black dog to show up and start following me around again .
    But there are ways of making the mutt disappear and getting back to a half normal life mate .
    Yep, know exactly what you mean with work, social life and "friends".
    Was always physically active, work was physical, sport, tinkering with cars...
    Doesn't seem to be anything that I can do without pain or wandering thoughts, so I almost figure, why bother?
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    Yes, pain can gnaw away at your being. There are times it takes over, but having time with your youngster is precious, and a great reason to battle on. Remember, he sees life through young eyes and you can help him see the best of it what it offers.

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    take care gents. Dont let that Black Dog in the back door he can stay out side. Bloody thing makes a mess everywhere... Plenty of guys here that will let you lean on them gents. Any time. If you need to get away just post a thread and tell us where you want to go and someone will likely be keen for a drive.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Evo View Post
    So...

    Has now been a little over 6 years since I was able to work.
    People ask how do I manage, I answered honestly.
    "I don't know, just do."
    However, I now think I have reached the point where rationality and sanity have fallen out the window.
    Every day is a struggle.
    Can't think straight.
    Have a very short fuse.
    Just feel useless.

    Just don't know what to do...

    Sorry fellas.
    Just needed an outlet.
    Best I can say is keep venting on here, try and get involved in some of the forum trips if you can.
    All the meet up trips I have been involved in have been very family orientated.
    In fact it’s all about families having a good time and anyone is always welcome.
    This is why this forum is a winner mate

    Get involved or just vent... all good




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    An offer!
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    Depression

    Personally suffered very debilitating anxiety in my late 20’s early 30’s and eventually/thankfully found a Cognitive Therapy Doc with 6 free sessions from a government grant were the tools learnt/clicked I needed to get up off the shower floor again. Does occasionally try to sneak back at me sometimes in high pressure situations but the whiteboard training memories from the Doc help me cut off the freight train now before it leaves the station so to speak. May not be for everybody mate but I am sure glad I gave it a go for me and forever thank that one specific Doc that worked out my noggin so well and tailored my lessons in a language little old me could understand.
    Take care brothers & sisters we are all in this together!


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    the train leaving the station mate.....never been diagnosed with depression but do find myself down sometimes..i these as trigger points.....knowing what can cause everything to go shit is important...whether it is thought's or what somebody said....I know I had some hard times and this forum helped heaps.....some really good people here...even better listeners
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    Well said @MB and @Avo , it can be mind over matter and learning how to distract yourself but knowing you have a problem (with depression) and recognising it then accepting it and getting help can be a very long bumpy road if you don't have the right road map .
    I reckon depression is a journey not a destination.

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